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No there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Who is to say that a girl asking a boy out is wrong? This is the year 2009, not the 1950s anymore where that was tradition. Look around you, all tradition changes over time that is just life. A girl can do whatever she wants in today's society.
Why wouldn't they be able to?
Well, tradition has always been that the guy has to ask the girl out, and the guy has to take a chance with every decision he makes because the girls truly believe the guys has to do everything.
Tradition is pretty much a useless fallback unless it has some benefit to provide a reason or rationale for it. Which there isn't one to only men making active remonstrances in dating and affection. The "what or how" isn't quite a "why" here.
In order to ask "why" you'd have to wonder whether there are societal reactions to that plot twist, as it were, which damage the resulting relationship or dating experience. Ie, is the girl a "tramp" or a "whore" for being proactive in her choice of romantic entanglements instead of passively reacting to the approaches of male suitors. I'm not sure if this has ever been a common assumption in the first place or that other people genuinely cared which person fired the initiation of romantic hostilities.
Hell yes…Why do guys have to do all the work. Confident cats are sexy.
yes they can and nothings wrong with it
Man I wish they would! My number is 206-xxx-xxxx….LOL!
hmm. so Otter lives in Seattle
Wow, and I didn’t even look at his blog for the right answer, ehh Steve.
since when could you read minds?? in a lot of stereotypical marriges, the women has more power.
so are strong, silent types. it intregues imagination and curiosity.
sure, tradition can be cute, but i think gorls have to take more control of situations involving boys, especially teens. they need to be able to say "no" as well. i asked my current boyfriend out 2 years ago.
i think that friendship is the key to a strong relationship and is WAY more important than enything sexual. a word of advice to anyone whos planning on asking someone out, no matter the sex, BECOME FRIENDS WITH YOUR POSSIBLE SPOUSE FIRST, DONT ASK OUT SOME RANDOM STRANGER. it doesnt work. (well maybe for a few lucky people it does, but thats like winning the lottery)
Why would there be anything wrong with that? Girls have rights too you know. I am a guy and i think that girls shouldnt have to let the guys do all the work.
I think boys should ask girls out because there suppose to be mens aren’t they